The Lies of Dating

The biggest Lie I have ever heard in my entire life is that dating is fun. The whole concept of dating as a fun thing is just unfathomable to me. How can the idea of spending the evening/day/outing with strangers hoping that by the end they will have enough interest in you for it to happen again be seen as a fun thing? Seriously, you want to know what dating is? It's a panic attack for your self esteem that's what it is, because the truth of the matter is if nobody is contacting you or wanting to have contact with you it's like you're being rejected by every person you have ever come across.  To make things worse is that we now have social media to add another blow to your ego. I mean you can add complete strangers on facebook or twitter or instagram so the whole statement above about rejection rings true in about 50 different kinds of social contact. Yay for dating! not.